Showing posts with label generosity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label generosity. Show all posts

04 March 2018

Second Thoughts ~ Give Me of They Rice


Greetings Dear Reader,

Sometimes I will end the day with thoughts that are important to get out.  Usually I just write them and put them in my journal folder.  I have chosen that on occasion I will share them with you, Dear Reader.

My Grandfather never preached about money.  He would talk about the importance of giving to others and caring for their needs.  I saw him live the example of giving to others generously often. 

He did tell a story that I want to relate here.  It has stuck with me for over fifty years.  First, I want to be clear.  I am in a very difficult time.  I am not going hungry but I have not been able to find work for almost nine months now.  It tempts one to draw in and give less.  His story reminds me that this is not the way to live.

The Story:
There was a certain man in and ancient time and place whose life had been very hard.  He had once been a man of influence and wealth.  Changes in time and tides brought him low.  He is now poor and destitute.  He stands beneath a single palm tree on a lonely desert road in his only ragged clothes sifting through his last bowl of uncooked rice.
 
The bitter man cries at the sky to God, “Why have you done this to me?  Why have you forsaken me?  Why have you taken all that I have save this last bowl of rice?  I will cook it, eat my last meal, and then wait to die alone in this desert.”

Off in the distance the man sees a caravan moving along the desert road.  Camels carry great stores.  In the midst of the caravan train strides a great elephant with a beautiful divan on it.  He can tell by the flags that the divan carries a wealthy Magus.  Again, the man renews his bitter cry to God questioning why he was so poor and the Magus so rich.

After a time, the caravan approaches the palm tree and it stops.  The wretched man does not even acknowledge the caravan.  He stands beneath the palm tree silently cursing God and the Magus. 

The Magus comes down from his comfortable divan approaching the poor man.  The poor man says nothing to the Magus.  He does not even greet him with the respect one man shows another when they meet.  He continues sifting through his rice, cursing the Magus in his mind, and renewing his anger at God for not providing for his needs.

The Magus greets the man and waits patiently for a response.  The man says nothing but sifts his dry rice and glowers at the Magus.  After a second attempt at a polite greeting the Magus instead makes a demand.

“Poor man,” he says, ‘Give me of thy rice.”

The man’s face flushes with anger.  He shakes with rage but says nothing.  He thinks to himself, “What does a wealthy Magus need with my rice?  He should be the one giving to me.”

The Magus extends his open hand near the rice bowl and speaks again.  “Poor man,” he says, ‘Give me of thy rice.”

The poor man glowers with rage but he also fears what the Magus might do to him.  Anger filling his soul, he reaches into the bowl and gives the Magus a single grain of rice.  The Magus smiles, extends his open palm, and again demands, “Poor man, give me of thy rice.”

The rage in the man grew still more but again he places a single grain of rice in the hand of the Magus.  In his mind he is cursing the man and thinking, “This Magus robs me on the road when he has more than he will ever need.” 

The Magus smiles again at the man, extends his open palm, and speaks again, “Poor man, give me of thy rice.”

The man fears that his rage will burst his heart.  He gives the Magus a third grain of rice whilst internally cursing the Magus and cursing God for robbing him.  He vows in his mind that this will be the last and waits.

The Magus smiles as he takes the third grain of rice, turns, and walks away. Without another word to the man the Magus rides away in his caravan.  The man watches after him sifting his rice, cursing the Magus, and complaining to God that he has been robbed of what little he has.

He steps out into the sun as he curses after the Magus.  Still sifting his rice and still bitter over his fate he stares at the retreating caravan.  Then, the sun catches on something in his bowl.  It glints and flashes in the brightness of the day.  The man roots it out of the bowl.  It is a grain of gold easily worth a day’s wages.  As he looks he finds a second and then a third grain of gold.  The poor man weeps at what could have been.

During this difficult time, I have seen people who are not wealthy freely give me of their rice without my having to ask.  My heart is so very thankful for the love and generosity of my friends.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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07 June 2016

Abdication Disallowed – Closing Thoughts

Greetings Dear Reader,

There are so many things for which Christ followers are responsible.  We are not permitted to abdicate any of them.  We are not permitted to relegate any of them to others sources.  We are our brother’s keeper.  We are to love our enemies, our neighbors, and the Father at any cost.

This means that no matter what our moral position on someone’s actions, we are not to deny our responsibility to meet their needs.  We cannot use judgment of character as an excuse to fail in caring for others.  We cannot abdicate the command to love unconditionally. 

Whenever the church fails at this the cost is devastating.  The church is made up of people who claim Christ.  It we claim to follow Christ and do not adhere to this then we are not following.  We are instead using his name for our own purposes.  Part of loving God is refusing to use his name for our own purposes.

The simplicity of this encompasses the entire complexity of the world.  We are to humbly, lovingly care for others no matter who they are or what they believe.   If we do this one job it changes the world.  It crushes resistance to faith.  It destroys hatred.  It is in this one command, to love that we find the path that is follow Christ.

If we fail to do this we abdicate all that Christ calls us to be as his followers.  I must assure that I do this above all else.  I must become this and not abdicate it for a moment.  It was entrusted to me and is not mine to give away.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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06 June 2016

Abdication Disallowed – Faith

Greetings Dear Reader,

“The just shall live by faith.”

It is faith that connects us to the Father.  It is in faith that we are to do all things.  It is in faith that we follow Christ.  I have talked before about the common nature of faith.  We all have faith in something even if it is that faith is not necessary.

My thought here is that we may not abdicate faith in anything we do.  If I do not act in faith that my actions follow Christ then I should not act.  It is in faith that we are to do all things.  We cannot believe that we are doing what is right without faith. 

We will have doubts but must doubt in faith.  We cannot abdicate our faith.  Embracing Christ is a commitment.  It is establishing a relationship.  We follow in faith.  We live in faith and we abide in faith.

Whether I abdicate faith in a moment or permanently I am violating the foundation of my relationship with Christ.  I am not allowed to do this.  I must live by faith. I must not abdicate even in a moment.  I must hold onto my faith at any cost.  It is in faith that life is found.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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05 June 2016

Abdication Disallowed – Social Justice

Greetings Dear Reader,

I loathe politics.  It seems to almost always be about money and power.  Even those who want to do good get embroiled in the machinery.  Part or the problem is that Christ followers have abdicated social justice to the government.  

It does not matter what a person’s politics are if they are in need.  They are either friends or enemies and we are to love both.  I do not have to agree with someone’s lifestyle or choices to be loving and kind.  I do not have to accept all of another’s values to live out the value I am commanded to have.

Medical needs, common respect, and genuine kindness transcend all social barriers.  I may not abdicate my responsibility to care for others to anyone else.  The church must not give over its Christ commanded obligation to care for the needs of those around us.  We cannot deliver our vertical message of divine justice if we do not live the horizontal message of social justice.

We need to stop expecting those who do not follow Christ to act like Christ followers.  We need to see the needs of others as an opportunity to exemplify the love of Christ.  Every time we judge and condemn instead of loving and giving we abdicate our calling in Christ.

It does not matter what social position an individual takes.  It does not matter what someone believes.  What matters is if Christ is allowed to be seen through us in every circumstance.  I must assure that my disagreement with any social position does not cause me to abdicate my responsibility to social justice for everyone.   Allowing someone else to be mistreated is mistreating him.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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04 June 2016

Abdication Disallowed – Love

Greetings Dear Reader,

We abdicate the command to love very often.   As I look back on my life some of my greatest failures have been because I failed to love unconditionally.   Marriages, relationships, and strangers suffer when we fail to love unconditionally. 

When we give negative emotions control we abdicate our responsibility to love.  When we are selfish or greedy we abdicate love.   The two commands prevail.  Upon the commands to love God and love each other (neighbors and enemies) rests everything we hope to become. 

When we abdicate our love for God the weight of it can be eternal.  The consequences send out destructive ripples to those around us.  We can choose to also abdicate the truth of this but that does not change it.  We lose friends and family when we abdicate our responsibility to love God with all of our heart, soul, and mind.

Abdication of our love for those around us is just as costly.  When I fail to treat others with unconditional love I fail to love the Father and I damage people.  In business and in personal dealings I find the most peace when I respond in love to the situations around me.  When I withhold that love (and that is what it is) I fail.  I often fail badly. 

It is never that I get fed up, or angry, or tired of something.  It is always that I abdicate my responsibility to love others fully and completely.  It is always that I choose not to love.  That is the abdication that I am never allowed.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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03 June 2016

Abdication Disallowed – The Hungry

Greetings Dear Reader,

If we are honest we do not do enough to solve the problem of hunger in the world.  I have plenty.  I have been homeless and hungry.  It was a short time but long enough for me to understand what hunger is.

When we turn vital necessities into profit centered commodities it is destined that we propagate hunger.  A deeper issue is that we do not manage waste.  As we left our time at the sea we had to discard food that was still viable simple because there was no way to transport it.  Someone with vision could find a way to get that food to the hungry. 

The problem is that there are not ways to feed those who are hungry.  The problem is that we do not care enough about it.  I enter the grocery store and get what I need with little thought for those around me who cannot do the same.  I participate in things that help feed the hungry but perhaps have abdicated too much to agencies. 

I am not allowed to abdicate my responsibility for those who are hungry in my community or the world.  As long as there are hungry in the world waste and overabundance are wasted opportunities.  I must find new ways to assist in feeding the hungry.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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02 June 2016

Abdication Disallowed – Opening Thoughts

Greetings Dear Reader,

“Are there no prisons? Are there no work houses?”  In A Christmas Carol Scrooge asks this question when approach about being charitable concerning the needs of others.  His pre-specter opinion is that the needs of the poor are the responsibility of charities and the government.

One of the things that seems to be common is for us to relegate things to social organizations that are individual responsibilities.  I must concede that some things need to be handled by trained professionals but there is much more.  Many societal needs are the responsibility of individuals.  When we relegate them to the government or charities we abdicate our obligation to help others.

This creates a situation where I am too far removed from the needs of others.  We need processes in place to help on a large scale.  We also need to assure that we do not forego our personal responsibility for the needs around us.

In order to refresh my understanding of this I am going to walk through some social issues in my pondering.  I want to be clear that I am not relegating or abdicating my obligation to others.  If Christ followers do not take on social responsibility then we cannot show Christ to others.  Walk with me for a bit Dear Reader and let me know what you think.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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21 February 2015

Every Diner – Tipping

Greetings Dear Reader,

I find that when I see someone else tipping badly it irritates me.  I am keenly aware of how hard people in the service industry work.  At my favorite diner the servers work long days on their feet all day. 

This past week I saw a man leave a twenty-five cent tip for an eight dollar meal.  I do not know the man and do not wish to judge him.  It seems that if one can afford the meal one can afford the tip.  If not, perhaps one should order something less expensive because tipping is implied and right.

I know the level of service at this diner and the quality of the food.  The latter by the way should never impact how one treats the server including the tip.  It is vital that one keep this distinction.  The person carrying your bacon and eggs from the pass to your table is worthy of kindness and respect.

This translates to the larger world for Christ followers.  We must be generous.  I am not going to equate this to giving to the church.  That is something that each individual must ponder on his or her own.  What I do want to focus on is that Christ followers are to be known for their generosity.

I also feel that someone needs to make up the difference for those who tip too little.  When I tip honestly and generously I can make a difference.  I can improve the day and perhaps over time the life of a server just by being a little more thoughtful.  The essence of the Gospel is seeing that everyone matters to God. 

If I do not purposefully see that server in this light I am in danger of not seeing her at all.  I am in danger ignoring that she keeps my coffee cup full.  I am in danger of taking for granted that she knows what I want for breakfast most mornings without me saying a word.  I run the risk of her feeling that a regular customer does not care about her or her life.

I am not allowed to move through life without noticing, caring for, and acting on that care for others.  Every server in every diner is worthy of kindness and respect.  Leaving behind a few dollars to show the respect can be a sublime act of worship.   

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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