Showing posts with label Encouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Encouragement. Show all posts

10 November 2018

Gratitude Stories ~ Unexpected Encouragement


Greetings Dear Reader,

For those of you who are not writers you may not understand the part of the process where we put our writing out there and have no idea who it touches.  I have said often that I write this blog mostly for my own growth and accountability.  I am, however, thankful when my scribblings in this ethereal sand benefit others.  This story may encourage others and it came just when I needed it.

Many years ago, I was in a position to have an open home and be of practical help to others.  A young man named Adam showed up with another family friend.  I was wary of him but God had other plans.  My younger Son, Bezel has always had a keen sense of discernment when it comes to people.  He told me straightaway that Adam was alright.  Even though Bezel was young I believed him and gave Adam a chance.

I watched Adam struggle with faith, family, and the frustration of trying to balance his life.  I kept an eight-foot-long couch for years so that his six-foot plus frame would a have place to sleep if needed.  Adam has grown into a good man who is hard working and has a beautiful family.

This week he responded to one of my posts and part of hit was the following: “I read your blogs daily and pray for you often.  You have influenced my life and my walk with our Savior more than you know.”  This came at a time when I desperately needed it.  The place through which I journey right now is filled with both beauty and horror.  There is an abundance of grace and constant challenge. 

I am having to see some of my deepest flaws and deal with them in integrity and honor when people I love see me bereft of both.  We all need to realize that the flaws in others that inflame us are no worse than the beam in our own eye.  When we encourage and support others, we give them dry ground to learn and grow.  It is why we are supposed to make our focus love, mercy, and grace. 

One of the things I keep having to believe is that the armor God gives us is enough.  We have power, love, and sound minds.  We can endure the failures of others for the sake of love and grace.  When we do and abandon our pride in doing it, we can also see our own flaws more clearly.  We can learn to see our own need for mercy and grace.

I am learning how deeply flawed I am.  I am finding things to which I have been blind, ignorant, or in denial about my entire life.  I am working to be accountable and seek the Father’s forgiveness and that of those my fractures have harmed.  Adam’s words pulled me back from the path of despair.  That is what you do when you interact with me Dear Reader.  You encourage and empower me to keep following, knowing that even in those hours when I am isolated and in pain that I am not alone.  I am grateful for every moment you take to interact with me Dear Reader. 

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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20 June 2018

Say Something ~ Encouragement


Greetings Dear Reader,

Throughout my teaching life I have observed that when encouraged, students perform better.  We must correct and guide but we are privileged to encourage.  When others take the risk of learning from us in any situation encouragement is the fuel that powers effort. 

When we encourage others, we let them know that they are not alone.  We give them a place to stand whilst they try.  If you look, right there in the word is “courage”.  It takes courage to try new things, to learn, or to change for the good. 

I know good people who withhold encouragement on purpose.  They think that being a hard task master helps.  It can be good to be firm but even in that we can provide encouragement.  We are meant to build up each other.  We are designed to be fueled by the positive kindness of others.

I can run for a long time on a kind word.  When you encourage me I dig in and do more.  I have observed that others are like this as well.  We feel more than good when others encourage us.   There is motivation and hope in genuine encouragement.

It is vital that I encourage others whenever possible.  I try to do so genuinely on purpose every day.  I challenge you to do the same Dear Reader.  “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” —Mark Twain.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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30 May 2018

Gratitude ~ Encouragement


Greetings Dear Reader,

We all know how it feels when someone offers a kind word.  We feel the value when someone says positive things to us about our efforts and endeavors.  Encouragement is something for which I am always grateful. 

As I have been in this wilderness of change for the last year many have taken the time to encourage me.  Many have made the effort to reach out on purpose to give me support and hope.  I have had the encouragement of others praying for me consistently.  It is one of the things that keeps me on the path and walking the journey.

Another aspect of encouragement for which I am grateful are the times when I can encourage others.  I so treasure the moment when the words I say warm the heart and encourage the spirit of another human.  There are places I go where I get to encourage people the entire time I am there.  It is so fulfilling to be good to others.

When we encourage each other, we share the journey in a unique way.  Encouragement is a message from one heart to another that “you are not alone.”   It reminds us that there is hope; that we can get through whatever besieges us.  When we encourage others, we take our eyes off of our own woes and lighten the heart of our fellow travelers.

Part of the joy in the journey is encouragement.  It is a privilege to give and receive it.  Thank you, Dear Reader for being a source of encouragement for me.  I am truly grateful.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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