Showing posts with label hoarding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hoarding. Show all posts

30 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ Closing Thoughts


Greetings Dear Reader,

We can hoard things internally even when we are socially isolated.  We can use the time to nurse feelings of anger and bitterness.  We can hold onto grudges or simply deny love and kindness.  All of this harms us and leaves us further from peace.

We all have hurts and fears.  There is always a reason we can find to hoard and withhold what others need.  What must be different is our desire.  Our thoughts must be tuned to being loving and encouraging to others.  Our minds must be used to give out loving-kindness in any way we can. 

As we walk through this time together, Dear Reader, we must determine to give ourselves away.  We must see that if we embark on the campaign of giving out love and encouragement with abandon, that we will run out.  It is not time to hoard this.  It is time to see that others need the love we have and give it away.

I am going to find ways to be kind to others.  I am determined to love others as deeply as possible.  I have not perfected this and we need not be perfect to try.  Let us agree as we move on to other thoughts, that our undercurrent in all of them will be to love others in every situation.  This is what will get us through the storm.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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29 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ A Kind Word


Greetings Dear Reader,

This is similar but significantly different from some of our other topics.  A friend posted an observation for his other friends who like conspiracy theories.  The conversation lasted on social media for four hours.  The interaction was friendly and civil.  Then it was not.  My friend took down the post once it became unkind.

I long to understand why we do this.  Good people that I know will post things that are unloving and unkind without really thinking about it.  I think that when we are under stress, we turn to our default settings.  If it is not our habit to be kind and encouraging then we will not show this to others.  We can, though.  We can choose to respond to everything with kindness and encouragement. 

The challenge we face is to determine how we are going to treat others amidst our own fears and frustrations.  I intend to offer encouragement to those venting about their isolation and fear.  I intend to be kind.  When I rise out of the story I am crafting to catch up, I will look for who is struggling and offer a kind word.

We have the chance here to show how much kindness and encouragement we have in us.  We can filter out the negative and give from our hoard of kind words and good intent.  Pick up on the needs of others for encouragement and give all that you have.  The Father will not let your well run dry.  Let me know if you need a kind word, Dear Reader.  I have one for you.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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28 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ That is a Great Idea


Greetings Dear Reader,

One of the things that social media is providing right now is a slew of great ideas.  People are creative and find new ways to meet needs and compensate for things currently unavailable.  We are created to be creative.

There is not deep spiritual truth here.  Rather, it is just my desire to point out that you are creative at solving your problems.  Do not assume that you are alone in those problems.  Share your solutions with others.  If you are not wishing to share in public, send your problem/solution to me and I will post if for you.  I will not identify you.

The point is that we are unknowingly hoarding ideas that can help others.  We have solutions that others need.  Join me, Dear Reader, in loving others by sharing your creative solutions to the problems we are all facing.  All creativity is an act of worship.  I would love to worship with you.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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27 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ Unending Supply


Greetings Dear Reader,

My friend Matt sent me a photo of his wall of TP yesterday.   He was joking that he had closed a business in February on good terms.  One of the things it had was a bulk supply of TP for its restrooms.  He is planning on opening another venue in September.  He was going to save money by using it there.

Matt is the kind of guy who knows his neighbors and is the kind of neighbor you want to have.  When he realized that TP was becoming a coveted thing, he drew big red hearts on the boxes and delivered a case to each home on his street.  He told me that it did not dent his supply at all.

My friend was not giving away Toilet Paper.  Matt is giving away love.  He is refusing to hoard the very thing that his neighbors need most and perhaps understand the least.  We are in a time where the thing we must pass along to every human in every encounter is love.   It must be viral, contagious, and unavoidable in us.

Every time I must go to a store, I spend time going to the clerks and thanking them for working when it is unsafe to do so.  I greet everyone with a smile and a kind word.  I keep my distance out of respect and wisdom.  There are still so many ways to show love to others.

We can respond to our friends' concerns on social media.  We can call people who are in isolation or shut-in for other health reasons.  We can order a pizza for a friend not handling the at-home situation.  One of my closest friends bought gift cards for a local coffee shop and sent them to the manager to use for anyone in need.  He supported the shop and people he does not know.  He is not hoarding his love.

That is it, Dear Reader.  We can still find ways to practically show love to others.  We must choose that this will be our stock and trade.  Even in the solitude of our homes, we can reach out with love and action.  People will long remember our love after gatherings have resumed and the air is clear.  I must remember this in every encounter.  I must show the love of Christ more creatively than ever.  Join me, Dear Reader, in not hoarding that for which we have an inexhaustible supply.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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26 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ Pocket full of Offenses


Greetings Dear Reader,

When I look through my social media sites to check on my friends, I am amazed at how many posts there are that still rant over this or that political issue.  It shocks me that there is still so much vitriol concerning social situations.  In a time when we should be doing all that we can to embrace the love of Christ, we still look for things over which to be angry.

Further, some of us have held onto conflict with friends and family.  We are still not willing to build the bridges needed to work out forgiveness and reconciliation.  This is an opportunity to give up hoarding resentment and unforgiveness.  We cannot sustain holding onto offenses and anger to begin with, so giving it up is even easier.  I know it does not seem like it.  One can begin by starting a conversation.

While we social distance we can begin to lovingly interact with those we have held guilty and unworthy.   We can write a letter or an email.  We can send a text or instant message.  We can build a bridge back to those for whom we hoard anger and insult.  It will not be easy but it will be worth it.  The more we empty our stores of offenses, the further we have room for love and grace toward others.  Why not make this time of isolation a time of active reconciliation?

We can work together Dear Reader to emerge from this with greater peace and harmony.  We can empty our hearts of resentment and bitterness.  We can stop hoarding the wrongs from our past and allow the time to heal our spirits.  We can move down the path together with less burden and more love.  Shall we try?

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

EVERY HUMAN STORY IS PART OF THE GREAT STORY THAT LEADS TO THE FATHER GETTING EVERYTHING BACK TO GOOD.

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25 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ The Mind Killer


Greetings Dear Reader,

When I was a lad, I had a very unfortunate encounter with some sand spurs.  These are the tiny balls of infinite spiky pain one encounters on beaches.  I was walking through the sand barefoot and stepped into a thicket of them.

I immediately sat down and tried to grab the large string of spheres embedded in my small foot.   Many of them obliged, released their grip on my foot, and buried themselves in the palm of my hand.

Clenching the palm of my hand, I realized that the spurs embedded in it were now also impaling my fingers.  I was young enough that fear of pain replaced sound thinking rapidly.  I sat there in the sand, crying in pain, and alone.  The only thing that had sway over me was my fear and it was quickly evolving to panic.

A lady on her way to the beach spotted me and came to my aid.  The focus of this writing was that I refused to open my hand because I knew it would hurt.  My fear of the pain prolonged my pain for hours.   The fear controlled my thinking and my actions. 

Holding onto my fear required that I hold onto my pain and prolong it.  That little boy on the beach held his tight-fisted grip on pain because of his fear of pain.  This is what we all do.  We fear the pain of working through our pain.  We refuse to move.  When I hoard my fear and keep it to myself, I am holding onto the source of my pain as well.

During this time of trouble, we all will feel fear.  What we must do is talk to each other.  We must share our fear and not hold onto it because we are afraid of the pain.  Fear short circuits our thinking and kills our reason.  When we hoard it, fear damages us further.   We need to remember that none of what we are facing is a surprise to the Father.  He knows how he will care for us in this.

I must not embrace fear.  I must not hoard it and neither should you Dear Reader.  We cannot afford to sell it to others or make it the center of our being.  We must keep moving forward together and share our fear.  The only way out is through.  We can see one another past the fear in love if we are willing.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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24 March 2020

What are we Hoarding? ~ Opening Thoughts


Greetings Dear Reader,

As the world responds or reacts to COVID-19, we see people panic-buying so many material things.  These are things they fear being without.  They are the things one thinks will bring peace of mind or a sense of security in uncertain times.  There is no material thing that can bring a feeling of sustainable peace.

This will not be about toilet paper, sanitizing gel, or bottled water.  It is not about holding onto false security over the things that will be gone when they are gone.  We have taken it for granted for years that we will always have these things.  We have wasted resources and failed to be thankful for the abundance we have as a society.

What I would like us to consider and develop is an understanding of the intangible things we hoard.  They are the things that we cannot hold and be healthy.  If we can speak honestly about the two-sided coins kept in our internal storehouses, we may be able to find that we have more to give and less to hold onto than we imagined.  We may have more to give than we dream.

I will keep this as light as possible and not ask you to carry more than you can.  I will ask you to share your thoughts and questions so I can become better at holding what is healthy and letting go of that which will not help.  My heart is to give you encouragement and freedom in our necessary isolation Dear Reader.  My desire is to help us emerge from this with better love for each other.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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23 January 2016

Second Thoughts – What to Hoard in a Storm

Greetings Dear Reader,

Sometimes I will end the day with thoughts that are important to get out.  Usually I just write them and put them in my journal folder.  I have chosen that on occasion I will share them with you Dear Reader.

Whilst the East Coast is in the throes of a record setting winter storm I have been entertained by watching my Southern friends and family respond to the event.  I have seen pictures posted of the snow and the jokes about “running to the store for bread and milk.”  Also in demand when expecting snow can be eggs and toilet paper. 

This reminds me of a winter ice storm in Atlanta when I was much younger.  We lost power and heat.  We spent almost a week with a friend who had both.  I remember we brought bread and milk with us.  We had some excellent French toast.   The current situation makes me wonder what one hoards during other types of extreme weather.

One of the highway warning sings call for LIZARD conditions.  My friend Robin was curious about this so I suggested she needed to run to the store for onions and prune juice.  I have seen it rain frogs when I lived in Florida. Perhaps this is similar. Of course if it rains frogs you need to buy pears and kefir.

For tornado shelters one primarily needs to stock up on good snacks and digital entertainment.  A weather radio might be a good idea too.  I am not sure there is a proper prescription for tidal waves other than RUN.  Another aspect of storm hoarding is taking on enough salt or plywood as the weather condition proscribes.

In hurricanes they suggest stocking up on fresh water.  I prefer large quantities of the following whilst riding out a tropical storm:

Vodka
Grenadine syrup
Gin
Light rum
151 rum
Amaretto almond liqueur
Triple sec
Grapefruit juice
Pineapple juice

Volcano eruptions provide the opportunity for many kinds of weather all at once.  I do recommend observing them from a safe distance, in a shelter, on a video feed.  Hot lava and ashes tend to mess up the hair.  You may hoard whatever piques one’s fancy.

Whatever your weather challenge it is “your” weather challenge.  I care that you are besieged by a storm.  I promise not to mock you for buying bread or prune juice.  I will offer this.  God never gets the weather wrong.  Ride it out and enjoy the change.  Stay safe and do not give in to the temptation to do stupid things.  Snow is always beautiful to me even when it is in my way.

Let it Snow – Dean Martin

Oh, the weather outside is frightful
But the fire is so delightful
And since we’ve no place to go
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow

It doesn’t show signs of stopping
And I’ve bought some corn for popping
The lights are turned way down low
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow

When we finally kiss goodnight
How I’ll hate going out in the storm
But if you’ll really hold me tight
All the way home I’ll be warm

The fire is slowly dying
And my dear, we’re still good-bying
As long as you love me so
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow

When we finally kiss goodnight
How I’ll hate going out in the storm
But if you’ll really hold me tight
All the way home I’ll be warm

The fire is slowly dying
And my dear, we’re still good-bying
As long as you love me so
Let it snow (let it snow)
Let it snow (let it snow)
Let it snow (let it snow)

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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