Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts

21 May 2020

Hold On ~ Closing Thoughts


Greetings Dear Reader,

We have heard the old saw about never seeing a hearse pulling a U-Haul.  Still, the Pharaohs built tombs and filled them with things they would need in the afterlife.  We gather things up until the end in most cases.  We hold on to all the wrong things most of the time.

Whether things are good or bad, there is always a need to hold on for some reason.  There will be times even in prosperity where we have to hold on to things that are dear to us.  It is in the holding that we discover what we value.

We live in a culture where we rent storage rooms because we hold on to all the wrong things.  We gather possessions and have much more than we need.  Even now, after purging almost everything I own, I own too much.  Last evening, I went through another round of divesting myself of things I do not need but possess too many.  I felt the loadstone pull to hold onto them.

Life draws us to hold things that we do not need, do not matter, or will harm us when the only thing we can truly hold is Christ.  In that even, it is Jesus that holds us and no one can rest us from his grasp.  Anything we hold other than Christ is useless and will diminish. 

Through Christ we can hold onto love, life, and light even in the darkest and loneliest of days.  I can walk through anything I must to keep following Christ because of a certainty of which I am reminded by my friend Tripp and by Job.  It is that we hold on in hope.  We endure in hope.  Our faith yields hope that whether the darkness is spiritual, metaphorical, or actual, after it there is more.  Beyond it there is real enduring light.  Post tenebras spero lucem ("After darkness, I hope for light").  This is Job as translated from the Latin Vulgate.   The passage is worth understanding in context.  His friends are chiding him and blaming him for his trials and terrors.  Here is the framing of his statement:

Job 17:10-12 (NASB)
10 “But come again all of you now,
For I do not find a wise man among you.
11 “My days are past, my plans are torn apart,
Even the wishes of my heart.
12 “They make night into day, saying,
‘The light is near,’ in the presence of darkness.

In chapter 18, another of his friends argues with him that he must be guilty of something and he needs to quit making excuses.  Job, in the darkness of loss, pain, and terror says this:

Job 19:25-27 (NASB)
25 “As for me, I know that my Redeemer lives,
And at the last, He will take His stand on the earth.
26 “Even after my skin is destroyed,
Yet from my flesh I shall see God;
27 Whom I myself shall behold,
And whom my eyes will see and not another.
My heart faints within me!”

I have no excuse for not holding onto Christ.  I have made the error of trying to hold other things that will not care for me.  They are things, control, and power.  They do not comfort or care.  They badger and batter for my attention and love but give no love in return.  I cannot hold on to people.  I grip chokes too much and they are not mine to hold.  They are mine to love and cherish but they belong to the Father and they are his to hold. 

During this distress and any other, it comes to the same choice that it is during times of plenty and joy.  What will I carry with me?  What will I hold?  If the answer is anything other than Christ, I will lose and I will suffer.  I have already lost much through failing at this.  I will do my best for what time remains to hold on to Christ alone.  This I can do and share it infinitely with anyone.  I will dream my dreams and seek my path home.  You are welcome to journey with me, Dear Reader.  I have failed you in the past, but I hold on to hope that the Father will make all things good between us eventually.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.


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20 May 2020

Hold On ~ The Gathering Darkness

Greetings Dear Reader,

One of the advantages in my living space is that if I turn off all the lights it is almost dark enough to develop film.  For those of you who do not know what developing film means, it is so dark you cannot see your own hand.  I use this to practice moving in the dark without bumping into things.  I am very poor at it.

Still, when I am awake in the wee hours and it is dark, I am not in complete darkness.  There is the light from the microwave clock, the LED lights from devices that are charging, and the tiny Christmas tree that sits on my desk, also provided by LED lights.  Even when the power goes off, my UPS has a row of small lights that cast their red glow across the floor.

We are rarely in total darkness.  Seldom do our lives become plunged into darkness so deep we cannot see.  Still, when I have been in a situation where I needed light, I have always wished that humans were bio-luminescent.  It would be nice if we could will light to shine from our foreheads or hold out a palm and light up our path.  I am captivated by this ability in marine life. 

When I ponder this, I am drawn to a realization.  No matter how dark it is or how deep my inability to see feels, I carry the most important security within me.  Instead of bio-luminescence, as Christ-followers we are gifted with Spirit-luminescence.  The Light of Christ dwells in us.  Even if we can only shuffle, we have a light that illumines the darkness.   We are supposed to be the light-bearers.  We are required to move through the darkness carrying the light of Christ, giving others something to which to hold onto. 

No matter how dark it seems, I have light and must use it.  I have a guide who will not abandon me.  I have the ability to use my faith to illumine any darkness.  I also need to remember that it is impossible to define darkness without speaking of the absence of light.  If therefore, we carry the light of Christ, then we are never in true darkness.  We can hold on because, in the deepest and most terrifying darkness, we are neither alone nor without light.

The journey is long and there will be dark times.  You and I, Dear Reader can find the light to share and help others along the way.  We can be a source of hope and light if we choose to see.  We can teach others to find the same light and follow it home.  No matter how dark it is, we can do that one thing that a journey requires; we can keep moving.
  
Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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19 May 2020

Hold On ~ In Dreams


Greetings Dear Reader,

A couple of weeks ago my six-year-old niece was telling me that when she grows up, she wants to be a nurse-astronaut-chef.  Her older brother said that she could not be all of those things.  I explained to her that as we develop more space travel, there will be a need for nurses in space and that anyone could be a chef as a hobby.  She smiled and said, “well then that is what I am doing.”

I often think about the professions I dreamt of as a boy.  I had a chance at a couple of them.  My home was not one that encouraged my dreams and aspirations.  It took me many years to have the courage to dream of things that were my heart and not my doubts.

We see often now the encouragement to hold on to your dreams.  Social media will feed us memes that tell us we can have it all if we pursue it.  Many things, however, get in the way of realizing our dreams.  In the current distress, many who have worked for things envisioned have had to put them on hold.  We can invest in our dreams and never realize them.

I hold onto many dreams that seem foolish to others.  What I have learned is that there are filters I can put in place that make my dreams worthy of time and substance.  Of all the boyhood dreams that have drifted away in the sands of time, being a writer has remained with me and I work at it daily.  What has made the dreams that I have manageable is the filter through which I pass them. 

When I seek my dreams, what am I seeking?  There are two things to hold on to when considering this.  The first is to understand what Jesus wishes me to seek.  His admonition is to seek the Kingdom of God first.  He wishes for my primary vision to be the complete reign of the Father over the universe.  He wishes for me to dream that things on earth be as they are in heaven.   He wants me to follow after the righteousness that comes from that condition.  I must filter my dreams to consider if they line up with that purpose.

The second filter is that of determining where my satisfaction lies.  That which delights me must be the focus of my journey.  If I am delighted by money then I will pursue it.  This is why the core of all delight must be centered on what is worthy of that dedication.  I must hold on to being delighted in Christ.  I must find him as my portion, my passion, and my pursuit.  If I am delighted in Christ, he will provide the desires of my heart.  My mind fully focused on him will filter out the things that are foolish or self-serving dreams.  I will be free to dream of the things that promote the Father’s kingdom and honor Christ.  This does not mean that I cannot dream of things that are not spiritual.  It does mean that no dream can be separated from these ends and be worthy of my time. 

I once dreamt of being a professional baseball pitcher and it was a valid, possible dream.  It is not wrong to want these things.  I must hold on to truth that what the Father allows will lead to the best for all things.  Being delighted in Christ alone yields a life that is free from wasted effort on wasted dreams.  I will hold on to the dreams that I am given and work toward them.  Whilst I am pursuing Christ, I will work toward those dreams and set aside the ones that detract from following more closely.  You are always welcome to journey with me, Dear Reader. 

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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18 May 2020

Hold On ~ Lifting Legacies


Greetings Dear Reader,

I mentioned yesterday that I committed 2019 to make love the prime mover in all that I do.  It will take the remainder of my years to perfect this and likely more beyond that.  In order to do this, I must build on that foundation things that enhance my ability to walk the path.

If I am going to deal with all things in love, then that which offends me must be minimized.  I must not let the things that step on my pride or preferences yield offense.  Beyond that, I cannot afford the luxury of allowing my spirit to be offended on behalf of others.  In thinking about how to handle loving others at every turn, I realized that I need to become unoffendable.  As my friend Tripp says, “This unoffendable thing is not easy.”

I must love those who are being hurt or in pain because of others.  This does not allow me to withhold love from the person causing the pain.  This is a hard truth but it is pure truth.  I may take up the defense of others but never take up offenses on their behalf.  We can relay all the circumstances and scenarios we wish but none of them release us from the requirement to love everyone.

It is not loving to be offended by things on behalf of others.  It is wrong to harm anyone but we are not allowed to stop loving those who cause harm.  I need not belabor this Dear Reader.  I must be unoffendable for the sake of others and set an example of loving them and those that are their enemies.  It is not easy but it is true.  I must not lift the legacy of offenses and carry them with me.  If I am lifting offenses, I cannot hold on to love.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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17 May 2020

Hold On ~ The List


Greetings Dear Reader,

I love lists.  I used to try to fit everything into a list.  I use them for decision making, event planning, and journey preparation.  When I was discussing dealing with the anger in my heart with a friend, she said, “I always knew you had a list.”  She referred to those with whom I had unresolved anger.

When I spent the year of 2019 reordering my thinking about love, I realized that I needed another list.  This list would be different from those I had made in the past.  It needed to be a list used to justify any measure of refusing to love another human.  I needed to be able to place love of others in perspective to their faults and failures.

The list had to work like this: getting on the list of those from whom I am allowed withhold showing love required that you pass two very specific tests.  The first was the severity of your offense as it related to me personally.   I am not saying that the offense could be vague.  I am not counting people who commit heinous offenses who I do not know.  It is a waste of time and resources to hate anyone who I have not met.  It also violates the second rule, which we will consider momentarily. 

The list of offenses is simple to create.  Lies, irresponsibility, and unkindness make the list easily.  Racism, violence, and murder are obvious.  Mistreatment, abuse, and human trafficking are things I clearly hate.  Greed, avarice, and coveting have to be included.  Being that some of these things are worse to me than others, I ordered the list in that way.

It is easy to find ways in this list to shun others.  It is simple to affix labels and categorize people into pods of rejection based on their crimes and sins.  This is why the second filter is necessary to the list.  To remain on the list of those to whom I can withhold active, demonstrable love one must pass both tests.  The second filter is that I will withhold active love from anyone that Jesus refuses to love.

It goes like this, “If he is a controlling narcissist (fill whatever justification you have for withholding love from someone) and Jesus does not love him, I will withhold showing love to him.”  You see, Dear Reader, we have to hold on to that latter filter with everyone that has breath.  That filter is the one we are commanded to use.  The demand from the one who forgives our evil and loves us no matter what we do is to love our enemies, neighbors, and strangers.  We are to love our family and show them love no matter what.

We are to hold on to love at any cost.  I mean that.  I have failed at it and so have you.  We justify our lack of love because of what others have done to us.  The only thing that heals others is love.  The Father’s love for us can see us through loving those who make the first part of the list because of the second filter.  You need not be perfect to say this.  There are those who refuse to show me love because of my past failures.  This is not how we would wish to be treated.  This is the heart of “do unto others as you would have done unto you.” 

If we make a list of those unworthy of our love, what we are really making is a list of those we have not forgiven.  We are calling out those for whom we need to have compassion, kindness, and unconditional love.  If we do not wish to be rejected for our failures, how can we think it is allowable to reject others due to theirs?

Holding on to love is what gives us the power to see the needs of others and at times meet them.  Moving past all of the hatred and anger gives us freedom to follow in a way that makes the journey easier and less painful.  It is not easy to get to that point and requires maintenance but it is worth it.  I will hold on to the idea that no one belongs on this list. I will follow the example of Jesus and count on him to give me the strength to do it.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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16 May 2020

Hold On ~ Waiting on Worship


Greetings Dear Reader,

“If you can keep your head when all about you   
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you…”  - Rudyard Kipling   

If I am going to hold on in the current distress, I cannot depend on or trust my feelings alone.  I know that in the past when I have been overburdened by circumstances, I have turned to wild, abandoned worship.  That is not bad but it is, for me, unhealthy.  It is only one side of the adoration coin.

You see, I am not truly worshiping for the sake of giving honor and love to the Father.  I am emoting in a safe way.  It may be that at times it even comes from a place of rage.  If then, I feel overwhelmed, overburdened, or overstimulated by pain or anger, I must wait to worship.  I must keep my head no matter what is going on around me.

As this occurred to me, I have taken a very calm approach to worship time at church and alone.  I sit during worship, taking in what is going on around me and identifying the feelings inside my heart.  I trace them to the thoughts that yield those feelings, pondering the thinking and the purpose behind it.  Once I know where my head is, I will find lines in the current worship song that reflect my honest thoughts toward the Father. 

Whether in corporate worship or alone, I speak clear thoughtful statements about my love for the Father and my gratitude for all he does for us.  I face how I am really thinking and yield my heart to things that honor God instead of emoting to squelch the undeniable voice of truth.  Shouting and dancing is just noise if it is not couched in the arms of truth.

We must hold on by keeping our heads.  We must think well and allow every true thought to have its voice in us.  I must meter my feelings based on truth and not make the feeling my truth instead.  I have to think and then feel.  When the truth that flows through my mind is good, then I can love through worship with abandon.  I must worship in spirit and in truth.  If I only worship in spirit I am leaving out half of the binary that connects me to the Father in the moment of adoration.

Whether it is a captivating sunrise or an act of kindness witnessed, I can take a beat to see the Father at work and express my love and gratitude for the truth of his presence in all things.  Part of learning to be in a constant attitude of prayer is seeing the Father at work in every moment.  I must wait to worship so that I hold on to the truth.  I must be sure that my heart and mind are aligned with the reality of the situation.  

If I worship to avoid dealing with the truth, I am taking the name of the Father for my own purposes; in vain.  That, Dear Reader, will lead to less truth and more pain.  That will destroy my ability to hold on.  As we journey together, let us keep our heads and share honestly with the Father what hinders us.  Then we can move past the obstruction and worship in spirit and in truth.  Then we will have the whole of worship to help us hold our place and travel onward.  We will be able to travel in the midst of where the Father abides.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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15 May 2020

Hold On ~ Opening Thoughts


Greetings Dear Reader,

In my collection of short stories, Sheetrock on the Road, every story begins with “sometimes.”  It is a device that I will carry into the second volume which is almost complete in its first draft.  It led me to a thought that I wish to process and invite you into the journey through that course.

I was reading through my book of Kipling poetry and this line jumped into my head and began to demand attention: “And so, hold on when there is nothing in you except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’”  I have been besieged of late with my desire to be where I wish to be and doing what I wish to do.  The present distress and some of my obligations do not yet allow this. 

If you read regularly, you know that I long to only derive my income from writing.  You also know about Project Tortoiseshell.  I am not impatient for these to be a reality.  I am, however, longing for it.  For those of you who pray for me, I would be honored if you would include these two things in your prayers.  That is not my focus here.

What I wish to ponder and hone is my mind’s will to hold on when things are not as I wish them to be or unfolding as quickly as I desire.  I believe that we are not as good at holding on as we should be at it.  In too many ways we have lost the long view of things.  We forget that what we are traveling through at this point is not permanent.  We lose sight of the journey in the current circumstance. 

There is a proverb that has an uncertain origin.  It has been attributed to many philosophers.  I care more for its truth than its progenitor.  “A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they know they shall never sit.”  I have heard worded several different ways but the truth is the same.

I want to think clearly through ways and circumstances in which we need to hold on.  It may take all of our wills.  It may take all of our courage and strength.  It may even take all of our faith, but we must remember how to hold on to truth and journey forward.  I must hold on to my resolve and heart.  No matter how long it takes, I must believe that the tree will grow and there will be shade for those in need.

Please travel with me, Dear Reader as we look to bolster our hope and heart.  Perhaps we can find better ways to hold on to that which matters and throw away things that do not.  It will not always be easy or seem practical.  It will allow us to move closer to home and to that time when hope and faith are no longer necessary.  It will give us a place to stand until we see the next step.  Perhaps we can learn together some better ways to hold on because your thoughts and questions always help me see a bit clearer. 

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Every human story is part of the great story that leads to the Father getting everything back to Good.

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12 March 2018

Times They are A ‘Changing


Greetings Dear Reader,

I have many friends who struggle with the loss of an hour of sleep and are feeling that pain this Monday morning.  I have always been someone who needs little sleep and who rises early.  It does not really impact me. 

This means that I get to be more compassionate for those who do suffer from this event.  My dear friend Heather is begging for buckets of espresso.  My Daughter will struggle with the adjustment for days.   Mothers of young children will be awakened early for weeks. 

There is humor to be had.  There are memes all over social media.  There will be stories of being late for brunch or church or work.  There is humor to be found in the difficulties as we are subjected to a practice that seems archaic or useless. 

The history of the event is not well known and there are false things that are assumed true.  Benjamin Franklin did not invent it.  He did propose getting up earlier and going to bed earlier during certain times of the year.  It was not done to aid farmers.  Cows do not know that they need to be milked an hour earlier.  The corn does not care what time you plant it. Many countries have tried to do away with it but abandoned the idea.  The state of Arizona refuses to play.  It is "Daylight Saving Time" not Daylight Savings Time".

No one has risen up to lead the charge to change the change.  I enjoy the daylight lasting longer in the summer evenings.  It fits with the romance I remember of baseball and peaches as a youth.  It reminds me of drifting along Georgia roads in my first Volkswagen with my friends. 

It also reminds me of how little I control in my world.  I can only control my responses.  I can only control how I act.  As with all things I must ride the wave and seek to be good to my fellow humans.  I must be a little more patient whilst others adjust.  I must be grateful that it is easy for me.  Oh, and I must remember how to change the clock in my car. 

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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14 February 2016

This is the Stuff…

Greetings Dear Reader,

…that drives me crazy.

I could so easily list all the things over which I obsess.  I could also ponder the things that irritate me without cause.  There is no point in so doing as it is only going to cause me to obsess or be irritated.

There are, however, things that cause me to struggle against being irritated by or being irritating to others.  The problem is that this leads to it being difficult to be loving to others.  I have realized afresh that the little irritations can be fodder for becoming a better man.

I can turn chances for irritation into opportunities to love others.  I can use them to deal in grace and mercy.  I can avail myself of further grace to be understanding and kind.  It is in these moments I can make the choice to be a better version of myself.

All this stuff is geared to give us these opportunities.  The minor irritations in life are chances to hone our skills at love and kindness. They are meant to make us more gracious and understanding.  If I can master this in the small irritations I am better prepared for doing the same in the larger life challenges.

Practicing kindness and grace develops the spiritual muscle memory.  It needs to reflexive to be understanding and kind.  It must be habitual to promote patience over irritation.   The stuff that drives me crazy must drive me toward Christ.  It is what he uses.


This Is the Stuff – Francesca Battistelli

I lost my keys in the great unknown
And call me please 'cause I can't find my phone

This is the stuff that drives me crazy
This is the stuff that's getting to me lately
In the middle of my little mess
I forget how big I'm blessed
This is the stuff that gets under my skin
But I've gotta trust You know exactly what You're doing
Might not be what I would choose
But this the stuff You use

45 in a 35 sirens and fines
While I'm running behind
Whoa ho ho

This is the stuff that drives me crazy
This is the stuff that's getting to me lately
In the middle of my little mess,
I forget how big I'm blessed
This is the stuff that gets under my skin
But I've gotta trust You know exactly what You're doing
Might not be what I would choose
But this the stuff You use

So break me of impatience
Conquer my frustrations
I've got a new appreciation
It's not the end of the world
Whoa ho ho ho

Oooooh this is the stuff that drives me crazy
This is the stuff
Someone save me
In the middle of my little mess
I forget how big I'm blessed
This is the stuff that gets under my skin
But I've gotta trust You know exactly what You're doing
Might not be what I would choose
But this the stuff You use

Whoa whoa ho ho
This is the stuff You use.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”

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28 December 2014

Closing the Year – Dodging Discontentment

Greetings Dear Reader,

Two of my children were gifted with new PlayStation Four Consoles for Christmas.  Sony experienced a vast denial of service attack on their network beginning Christmas Day.  This means that my two children and hordes of others were not able to register, download games, update content and things of the like.

I was pleased as a Father to see both of them find the positive in the situation.  My Daughter Christmas did this at home.  She expressed her gratitude and turned to other leisure activities.  She would try every couple of hours over the next few days but showed not a moment’s discontent.

My Bezel show similar patience and character.  He did so in front of my Grandsons and made the best of the situation by being good to them.  He was content to play the included game with his nephews and siblings.  He expressed at one point his compassion for all the other people who were disappointed by the network outage.

I watch with pride as both of them dealt with disappointment in love and compassion for those around them.  I felt moved that when they were with my Grandsons the set an example of giving up what they wanted to be good others.  As I mentioned yesterday the media is screaming for us to be discontent with what we just received.  My children have instead chosen to love.  That is joyous. 

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store." 

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13 December 2014

Why I love Christmas – Shopping

Happy Christmas Dear Reader,

Before you t think that I have gone over the edge stay with me a moment.  When I say I love shopping it is not because of the rush, greed, and stress.  I rarely find myself in that position.  Since I plan for Christmas all year long I find that I am often finished shopping long before Christmas. 

When I go out among my fellow travelers at Christmas time I do so with the intent of being kind to others.  Sure there are few things I need to find to fill out the corners of my gift puzzle.  The joy for me though is the random opportunity to be kind to others.  I also am thrilled to spread a little Christmas cheer.

I sing as I shop.  I smile at people and say nice things to them.  I seem a little crazy but it is worth it.  I go out of my way to be good to clerks and shopkeepers.  I picture the Ghost of Christmas Present spreading the cheer from plenty’s horn as I move among strangers offering them a glimpse of joy.

I will never know if I make a long-term difference until God tells me.  I do know that I can create momentary smiles in the hearts of others.  I can be a bright spot in a grumpy checkout line.  I can be a moment’s peace for a harried cashier. 

I love shopping because it can be a real opportunity to remember why I celebrate Christmas.  I can go into the fray of the hustle and swim against the tide.  I can test my determination to be salt and light in a good way.  Perhaps I can even help someone else do the same.    

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store." 

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