Greetings Dear Reader,
First I should be very clear that it is not wrong to be
angry. We will feel angry. If we deny our anger or bottle it up it is
dangerous. Paul’s reference to anger in Ephesians
is in the imperative. “Be angry and do
not sin. Do not let the sun go down on
your anger.”
“Be angry” is not a choice it is a command. There are things about which we must be
angry. “…and do not sin” is also the
imperative. We must not use anger as
reason to sin. The third imperative is
that we must not let the anger live through the day. This means we are to deal with our own
feelings about a situation so that it does not impact us internally.
We seem to be very good at the first imperative. We are very good at being angry. I know people seem to be only angry all the
time. Anger becomes a very easy emotion
to access. It is an easy habit to form.
Where we fail is to then assess the anger we have
accessed. Unfolding before us once we
feel anger is a set of binary choices.
There is little gray area in these choices even though we try to make it
so. As I work through anger I ask the
first and hardest of all questions.
Is my anger justified?
My anger is not always justified.
Sometimes it is rooted in selfishness or greed. This question must come first. Figuring out why I am angry often leads to
the choice of blame or forgiveness. We are
not allowed to cling to anger. We are
required to reason out a course of action if the anger is justified.
I must be loving, kind, and forgiving. I must express how I feel in a way that does
not harm or disrespect. I must always be
the master of this most dangerous of feelings.
I must be honest about the feeling, the source, the justification, and
the resolution. I must do all this be
day’s end so that I do not carry it over into the next.
Again dealing with this feeling has the overshadowing
requirement to love my neighbor or enemy.
It requires me to love God through control and honesty. Anger has rules. If I am to follow Christ properly I must obey
them.
Wishing you joy in the journey,
Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer
who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home
owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure
store.”
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