Greetings Dear Reader,
For those of you unfamiliar with liturgy, part of the
definition is that there are cants and responses. The word “cant” has mostly a negative meaning
outside of church services. The idea of
the cant in liturgy is different. It is
where we get the word cantor, who is someone that proclaims the phrases to
which the congregation responds.
The most well-known example is this:
Cantor or Leader: “The Lord be with you.”
Congregation: “And also with you.”
We have a liturgy of communication in our liturgy of the
common man as well. There are the
phrases that we utter to each other that keep communication between people at a
safe level requiring little real engagement.
We praise Friday and disparage Monday.
We talk about “the game” and our approval or disapproval of the
outcome. The weather is either good or
bad depending on whether it fits our plans and preferences.
There is always the “How are you” and “Fine” part of the
daily service. We repeat this cant and response
without even thinking about it. I stole
a response from Dave Ramsey that causes people to listen and even gives me a
clue about who they are depending on the response. My response to the “How are you” cant is “Better
than I deserve.” I use it primarily to
remind myself that everything about my life is a blessing from the Father. I am not getting what I deserve because I
walk in the grace and mercy of Christ.
Instead of engaging with each other we have developed a
liturgy that keeps us from having to be genuine and vulnerable. We are designed to care about how others are
doing. There are not supposed to be
canned responses to our lives. If we are
going to really live, we must show love to others in every interaction. I can hear Louie Armstrong singing, “I see
friends shaking hands, saying ‘how do you do’; what they’re really saying is ‘I
love you.’” We have lost the freedom to
really express our love for each other in the liturgy of the common man.
Liturgy is not wrong but it can become rote and unfeeling
unless we fully engage in the conversations we have. Let us go back to the common service
opening. We do not always engage with
the statement, “The Lord be with you.”
We must. We need to do so. Someone is expressing the desire that the very
God of the Universe be with us. We wish
the same in response. There is nothing more
vital to any human.
It is our obligation to invest love in every encounter. My liturgy must be uncommon in its level of
love and care. It should reflect the level
of engagement with others that should be common. The only way that we can take on the burden
of caring for others is to truly communicate with others.
If I am going to be a true follower of Christ, I must
emulate his commitment to really speaking to the hearts and spirits of others. I must be genuine in my communication and temper
it so that it draws others to do the same.
If you wish to try this, Dear Reader, feel free to try it with me. I want to hear you and see who you really
are. In the meantime, I genuinely wish
that the Lord be with you.
Take
On Me – A-ha (unplugged)
We're talking away
Though I don't know what I'm to say
I'll say it anyway
Today's another day to find you
Shying away
I'll be coming for your love, OK?
Though I don't know what I'm to say
I'll say it anyway
Today's another day to find you
Shying away
I'll be coming for your love, OK?
Take on me (take on me)
Take me on (take on me)
I'll be gone
In a day or two
Take me on (take on me)
I'll be gone
In a day or two
So needless to say,
I'm odds and ends
But I'll be stumbling away
Slowly learning that life is ok
Say after me
It's no better to be safe than sorry
I'm odds and ends
But I'll be stumbling away
Slowly learning that life is ok
Say after me
It's no better to be safe than sorry
Take on me (take on me)
Take me on (take on me)
I'll be gone
In a day or two
Take me on (take on me)
I'll be gone
In a day or two
Oh, things that you say
Is it a life or just to play my worries away
You're all the things I've got to remember
You're shying away
I'll be coming for you anyway
Is it a life or just to play my worries away
You're all the things I've got to remember
You're shying away
I'll be coming for you anyway
Take on me
Take me on
I'll be gone
In a day
(Take on me)
Take me on (take on me)
I'll be gone (take on me)
(Take on me)
Take me on
I'll be gone
In a day
(Take on me)
Take me on (take on me)
I'll be gone (take on me)
(Take on me)
Wishing you joy in the journey,
Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every
writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a
homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure
store.”
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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Thorn:
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