18 January 2019

All out of Epithets ~ Selfies


Greetings Dear Reader,

One of the things that I feel defines our era is the selfie.  I confess that I still do not get the concept.  I do not think them wrong, but I know people who post pictures of themselves every day, almost everywhere they go.

I do feel that it is a softer symptom of a deeper problem.  We have become seriously self-absorbed.  We are an increasingly selfish society masquerading as people who care.  We have the resources to combat hunger and homelessness but we spend it on overpriced coffee and artisan meals.  We claim to socially aware but put more energy into our politics and social signaling that in the actual work of combating poverty.

Most of the things we identify as making a difference make us look good but do they make a difference?  We are often more interested in what others think of our social awareness than in being socially aware.  Everything becomes about us and our issues over truly caring for the needs of others.

We have more self-centered “medical” issues as our society becomes steeped in acceptable forms of narcissism.  Advertising, social media, and even the health industry encourage us to “work on us”, to take time for ourselves.  It is increasingly about avoiding the needs of others in favor of focusing on ourselves.  Much more healing occurs when we deny ourselves and follow Christ in caring for others.

I need to take inventory daily of the things I do and why.  Which of my efforts really serve the needs of others and which are selfies?  As we turn in on our selves and make things about us, we neglect the remainder of the world.  I must determine what I am willing to sacrifice in order to make a real difference.  The bottom line becomes the understanding that it is not about me.

If I focus on the command to love God and love others then the things that are about me can fade more easily.  The things that absorb me with me get pushed aside when I focus on the needs of others.  Instead of getting out the selfie stick to focus on my own pride and wants, I need to put my heart and mind in to seeing clearly where I am and how I can make a difference for others.

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a home owner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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