17 May 2019

Transactional Analysis ~ Command and Control


Greetings Dear Reader,

We transact with authority constantly.  Driving, work, and school all include interactions with authority.  We either embrace it or reject it.  Sometimes, we merely tolerate it.  We must interact with authority in most aspects of our lives.

We may have a position of command and authority.  It is likely that we use that position with good intent.  Authority is necessary for many situations.  The problem emerges when we begin to believe that we are in control.  Control of almost anything is an illusion.  There is always a tipping point if authority is exercised without regard for the governed.  This is true socially and politically. 

The idea of the transactions of authority is not about control.  It is about leadership and we seem to be losing that.  It is because we think that in these transactions, we have control.  We control so very little.  In truth, it may be that the only thing we control is our thoughts and responses. 

When we transact as an authority or with one, we forget that control is only there by consent of the controlled.  Whether it is government or work, there is no real control over those who do not wish to be controlled.  If one is willing to pay the price, one can resist most forms of control.  When we transact in control, we should remain aware that it is an illusion.

The only exercise of control we need is that over our own thinking.  If we think in terms of love and grace then we will not need to control anyone else.  Control is necessary but never a need as it relates to others in our lives.  We must act in love or we will try to control others.  We cannot transact in control without love and be good.    

I realize that this is not as deep as one might wish.  Then again, the simple acceptance of the fact that we do not control, but rather, we respond becomes very freeing.  Think about the things we believe we control Dear Reader.  We may need to loosen our grip and remember that we follow by choice. 

Wishing you joy in the journey,

Aramis Thorn
Mat 13:52 So Jesus said to them, "That is why every writer who has become a disciple of Christ’s rule of the universe is like a homeowner. He liberally hands out new and old things from his great treasure store.”
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